How I went from being a World Champion Bowler to a bowling motivator helping thousands of aspiring bowlers discover their power Beyond the Lanes.
Before there was a Collegiate National Champion. Before there was a World Champion. Before any Team USA medals, or fan mail. There was a little girl from a small town with an enormous dream.
Her passion for her sport fueled her.
Her heart led her.
Questioning if she had what it took to rise above, stand out, and reach the highest level of her sport, while reading all the mental game books she could get her hands on – she persisted.
I didn’t get to be a world champion without all of those lessons from that journey.
Motivation, Mental Game Books & Messing Up…
It wasn’t always roses. I remember calling home from college crying to my parents. “I don’t know why they can’t see me as I am. Why don’t they accept me?” I eventually realized that it had ZERO to do with me and EVERYTHING to do with them.
Being on teams is hard. Different personalities. Different styles of leadership. I have been on more teams in my career than I can count on both hands- and each team brought me a new lesson.
There were times where I would reflect inward and dig deep for the answers I needed. Why doesn’t everyone look at life like I do? Why is navigating college, and beyond- so challenging?
Then. I found the answers I needed. These answers became the catalyst to Beyond the Lanes. Maybe if I can teach others what I learned through this amazing sport, then they can avoid some of the heartbreak that I endured. And so it is.
“Beyond the Lanes is a practical solution to just being a better human. And, who doesn’t need a little of that in their life?”
The connection to life on and off the lanes is so empowering. Now, I get to nurture other people and show them what is possible.
INTERNATIONAL MEDALS
TIMES ON TEAM USA
WORLD BOWLER OF YEAR
HAPPY KIDS
Pivoting is Hard
No matter what level bowler you are, there are so many lessons to learn. I learned after chasing the ultimate dream of being one of the BEST bowlers in the world, I needed to pivot.
I wanted a family. I wanted to coach. Sometimes change is tricky. It’s uncomfortable. Let me get YOU out of your comfort zone. Let me show you how you can pivot. Whether you are a youth bowler navigating that teenage world, or a collegiate bowler looking for what’s next. Or maybe you are a league bowler who just can’t get out of your rut. Or you are a coach . . or a parent of a bowler.
My commitment to you is that I will never ask you to do something that I haven’t done. I will show you how to set goals and how to crush them. I have tried all the techniques out already- so that I can bring you what actually works.
So, are you ready to do this thing?
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I discovered that I was even more fulfilled helping others level up Beyond the Lanes so that they can kill it ON the lanes.
I reflected on all the experiences I have had in my life, and how what I’ve learned could really impact other bowler’s lives. And, so I create Beyond the Lanes.
- How to discover your authentic self and how to show up authentic in life.
- How high vibe people get rewarded in life and what that even means.
- How to set goals you can smash.
And now I am so excited to pass it on to you!
This next chapter of my life, sharing with you, is way more important than anything before.
I truly believe that I’ve learned some of life’s most important lessons through doing what I love, bowling.
I discovered that I could learn some of life’s most important lessons traveling the world, doing what I love.
And best of all…
I’ve had the honor of meeting other bowlers from all over the globe. I learned from them immersed myself into their culture.
Over the years, I’ve developed a reputation for leading with my heart and Beyond the Lanes is me opening up to you more than I’ve never done before.
If you want something new, you have to stop doing something old. It’s time now to take an honest look at your life and figure out what needs to stay and what needs to go. Too often, we live our lives with complacency. We are too busy working, and we don’t spend enough time dreaming. It’s time to work on you. Beyond the Lanes is a curriculum that I built to get you to level up your game on the lanes by focusing on your whole self Beyond the Lanes.
You cannot cut corners. There is no shortcut to success. You have to put in the work. But, it can be fun. It doesn’t have to be strenous and boring.
I am so excited to share all of those lessons that I’ve learned in my career — the good lessons, the bad lessons, the hard lessons, the fun lessons. All of it.
Let me show you how to be a better version of yourself Beyond the Lanes so that you can crush your goals on the lanes.
A Little About Me
I’ve started 4 entrepreneurial bowling businesses in my life.
I was inducted into the World Hall of Fame at 25 years old.
When I was a kid, I would dress up as a pirate for Halloween. Because why not, right?
My love language is “acts of service.”
I love everything Avett Brothers, and Lumineers.
“Be unapologetically kind. Be bold. Be authentically you. Follow Through. ”
– Diandra Asbaty
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