Joy in the Journey
On the hard days, joy feels like a lie. It feels thin. Forced. Unrealistic. But that is usually the day it matters most. We talk about winning. We chase results. We circle dates on the calendar and imagine how it will feel when everything clicks. Yet the longer I...
Dear Bowler: A Love Letter to the Game (and the Journey)
Dear Bowling, You have had my heart since 1985. That is a long time to love something. We have grown up together. We have celebrated. We have drifted. There were seasons when I tried to leave you. I questioned whether you loved me as fiercely as I loved you. You...
The Process Is the Point
At some point in bowling, the numbers get loud. Average. Series. Carry. Missed spares. Strikes that feel pure. Shots that feel stolen from you. Results slowly take over the conversation in your head. And without even realizing it, the lanes start to feel heavier....
You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Be Powerful
There was a time when I believed I needed to fix myself before I could move forward. Fix the flaws. Clean up the rough edges. Get everything just right. Then I would be ready. But readiness never arrived. Perfection never showed up at the door. And for a while,...
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